12 May
Dear Taylor Swift,
I remember when I was a teenager, I was a real music snob. I didn’t like pop music, I didn’t like music that was too ‘girly’ (I’m a woman by the way, which will prove useful context for this letter), and I was very convinced of the things I did like. And then… I met a bigger snob that me. I loved Lana Del Rey, he didn’t. He liked heavier rock music. Things that were more ‘real’. Or whatever. And I felt this feeling of having my music taste belittled, and I felt the feeling of having the supposed misunderstandings in my music taste associated with my womanhood, my femininity. And I stopped being a snob. Not overnight, but I did stop.
And as I grew up, Poptimism gained momentum. Suddenly, the thoughts that I was having about music that I loved (mostly pop music made by women) were being debated, critiqued, treated as solid foundations for conversations about culture. The dialogue surrounding music has gradually, as I have grown up, shifted to include and begin to raise up the music that I was afraid to say I liked as a teenager. I would never have been caught listening to Britney Spears, or Madonna, or even yourself. Because I was a girl who played guitar and sang onstage and I wanted to be taken more seriously. And of course, I did (and do) genuinely love all the music I said I liked back then. I adore rock music, I love The White Stripes and Royal Blood, I love the old country songwriting of Hank Williams. But I also love pop music, I love hooks and beats and dancing, and I love music written by women that can become a part of my own experience of the world in a way that songs written by a man simply never will be.
So, I suppose what I am saying is thank you. Artists like yourself contributed to this rise of Poptimism, and to the consideration of pop music and of femininity in music more generally being worthy of not just critical note, but critical praise. I really think that so much progress has been made in music for women in my lifetime, and thought there is still a long way to go, I find it immensely exciting. There are many things that a woman can be in music, but the increased acceptance that ‘lighter’ music does not denote lack of intelligence in a work’s making is something that has really altered the landscape. The recent success in the UK of the album 'Prioritise Pleasure' by Self Esteem, a female British artist, has given me real hope that we have some momentum behind us. I don’t believe that this would’ve happened without yourself, without Lana Del Rey, without Lorde, and many others.
I am no longer a teenager, but I am now allowing myself to love music instinctively and without complication, in a way that I should have back then. And I encourage everyone to love music this way, because life is too short to deprive ourselves of the sounds that hit our brains in exactly the right way. And isn’t that the essence of Poptimism?
Yours sincerely,
Eleanor
Eleanor